In mixer bowl (I use my Bosch and it is the BEST machine ever!) or large bowl, mix 3 cups of warm water (you want it warm, not cold or hot) with 3 tablespoons of active dry yeast and 5 heaping tablespoons of brown sugar.
*the sugar is important because it feeds the yeast. You can use honey or white sugar but I like the molasses taste of brown sugar. Chrissy uses honey.
*try to get most, if not all, yeast granules immersed in the water either by swirling or stirring
Let mixture proof while you get out flour (King Arthur brand or ConAgra for hotels), salt, yeast enhancer, and prepare milk mixture.
In a glass measuring cup pour about 1/4 cup of molasses (my addition) and fill the remaining 3/4 cup with milk (up to the 1 cup line for those of you who don't want to add fractions). If you don't want to use molasses, fill measuring cup with 1 cup of milk. Add 4 tablespoons of butter - cubed so they melt better. Warm entire mixture in microwave. Again, you want it warm, not hot or cold. (For my current microwave that means 1 minute but my previous microwave only needed 30 seconds.)
*When I am making bread without dairy I use rice or almond milk and a good olive oil. Although not as yummy, it works just fine and my family devours it. In fact, I don't think they know the difference.
Once yeast has proofed (that means it is bubbly and foamy), add about 3 cups of flour. Start to mix into yeast mixture. It does not need to be completely mixed before you continue. Add about 1/2 of the milk mixture and start to incorporate, once again not mixing to completeness. Add about 3 more cups of flour along with 1 tablespoon yeast enhancer Once mixed, add remaining 1/2 of the milk mixture, mix, 2 more cups of flour and 1 1/2 teaspoons - 1 tablespoon of salt. (I pour a palmful of salt into my bread.), mix, and continue to add flour in one cup increments until dough is a slightly sticky cookie dough feel where I get a small amount of dough stuck to my finger but not a lot. It should also pull away from the sides and become a ball as you knead through each step.
*When making it by hand, I would pull it out of the bowl after adding the second flour and salt and knead it on my counter - adding the remaining ingredients a bit slower. When making it by hand it tends to be a bit drier - or at least it was when I made it.
*You don't want to add the salt into the yeast mixture before you have given it a good flour base. The salt will kill the yeast if there is not flour already in the mix which is why I add it in the second flour step.
Once dough is to the consistency you want it, place in 3 greased bread pans. Cover the pans with saran wrap and then a good quality kitchen or bathroom towel. The warmer the bread stays and the warmer the environment, the faster it will rise. (The amount of humidity in the air plays a big part as well.)
Let the dough double in size. While they are rising, preheat oven to 350 degrees.
*If you let them over rise, feel free to reshape them into loaves and let them rise again.
Once they are the size you want them to be, place them in the oven for 36 minutes. You want the internal temperature to be around 190 degrees. (Chrissy cooks hers to 195 and I am okay with mine somewhere between 185 and 190.) Once the internal temperature has been reached, removed from oven. Smother the top with butter (unless you are making it dairy free). Remove loaves from bread pans and place immediately on cooling racks. YUM YUM!!
*I like my crust to be crusty so I leave my bread out for a while to cool
*You don't want to refrigerate homemade bread
*Eat within about 4ish days or it will start to mold
*If making rolls, divide the dough into thirds and divide each third into 12. Place on a greased cookie sheet and let rise until doubled. Cook for 18-19 minutes.